i love being called queer in the sunny wonderful state of florida and then going online to people telling me queer isnt a slur and i should stop whimpering
it is really fucking upsetting to be told by your own community that your experience with a slur doesnt fucking matter because we all collectively decided it’s reclaimed, like reclaiming isnt a persoanl decision
the idea that i am somehow less progressive, uneducated, whiny, or stupid because i do not personally wanted to be called queer because ive been called a queer by people with the intent to harm me is honestly heartbreaking because youre supposed to have a basic understanding of the variety of experiences that exist in the lgbt community. im trying to not take this personally but every time a mutual posts about how STUPID people who say queer is a slur are i feel like somethings tearing at my chest.
Worst fear: finding out that I really am just a late bloomer or something and I’m no longer asexual/aromantic and having to tell everyone and them being like told ya it was just a phase therefore giving people more “proof” asexuality/aromanticism doesn’t exist gah
the thing is, it’s okay if it’s just a phase. It doesn’t give people “proof” because there are still millions out there who are aro/ace. If it is “just a phase”, it doesn’t matter, because aro/ace is how you identify right now, and people should respect that. And if you change your mind some day, people should respect that too
You’re my fav kind of human
On god , I tell this to my mom like every other day when she says its just a phase
he and a couple other neighborhood cats were caught fighting a couple nights ago and someone picked them up and took them to the shelter, it doesn’t open until 11 so i can’t go get him yet
😑 costs 15 dollars to get a pet out of the shelter even though they’ve already inconvenienced me enough by kidnapping my son
That russian streamer crying during the endings of MGS3 and absolutely screaming in tears when The Boss gets called a traitor during it will forever be one of my favorite gaming-related events of all time
We’re starting the minor characters piles with a very loved man, Avdol!! Everyone was really hyped about it and we had such magnificent submissions for his pile! So many beautiful styles, all in one picture!!